
Don't you just wake up some days and wonder "I am going to make this a good day!" but, after several unfortunate occurrences, you wonder when the day is going to end?
I think I am prone to getting myself into sticky situations. By sticky situation, I mean those situations that aren't morally reprehensible or can be really damaging to the one's overall image, but those situations that just suck and could have been avoided if some external agent decided to be liberal instead of a stickler or if you had been a minute faster (or slower) than you were. Those types of situations suck because although no one is really hurt by them, you are still in a pickle and need to go out of your way to clean up a big pile of crap.
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Source: www.tutorials.com/tutorial_images/05/0549/05491bg.gif) I had two of those situations today. First, I got e-mail from the supervisor for our school newspaper saying that I did not make the corrections for the pages that were due to the print press today. As a result, one of the other editors had to make corrections and go out of his way. But to my defense, I had stopped by my supervisor's office the other day to pick up my pages for corrections (because I knew that I would be busy in the evening), and they were not ready. I agreed to have one of the other editor's pick them up and bring them up to the office. Well, when 6:00 rolled around, I went up to the office before dinner to make my corrections, and they weren't there. I wasn't going to wait until after 8 to do the corrections because the last time I did that, they were done for me, much to my chagrin. I ended up proofreading my pages by myself and took care of what I needed to. I also called one of the editors to let him know the situation, but he did not respond back nor acknowledge that he got my message. This is a sticky situation because I made an effort to try to take care of business, but that did not happen because of the actions of other people and a lack of communication.
Another example happened today before my Core 9 class with Br. Rob. I was headed out the door at about 9:50 to make my class when my roommate caught my attention and asked me to wait for him so we could walk to class together. That decision was costly, as we arrived about a minute late to class and had to wait outside until after a presentation was given (we walked in around 10:15!). I did not want to be rude and interrupt one of my fellow classmates during their presentation because it was a significant part of our grade. Once again, I was affected by the decisions of another person. Now I have to worry if Br. Rob is going to count this offense as an absence or not, which could affect my grade.
I guess the bottom line is that I just need to stay focused and worry about my own arse instead of what is convenient for other people. Although being nice to other people is important to me, sometimes I need to draw a line, because it is kicking me in the groin right now. In the end, I'm the one who gives in to what other people want.